Marriage was not meant for pleasure or enjoyment it was for happiness, there is a difference between happiness and pleasure. What is seen today marriage is for social pleasure and enjoyments.
That is why there are a lot of divorces because people marry for pleasure of few days or months not even years and they separate and to unhappy life.
We have to change our behaviour and this is possible if we become God fearing people. Marriage by definition is a God blessed act passed down in the church to make people happy and make families for human generation but wonderful enough people have changed it to civil union (mating like animals) just for pleasure and enjoyment this results to unhappy world. People should be helped to grow as followers of Jesus otherwise we are perishing.